Just something that's been bothering me for a while.
Okay, say someone has dated a number of people, online or offline, why is it ANYONES business to be telling them, "You guys wont last," or anything along those lines? Like, it really involves you?
I mean, maybe the person has dated a bunch of people, maybe it's very obvious that they are unstable, maybe they really only will last a month or two with their partner, and maybe it is something to roll your eyes at everytime they find someone new and say they will love them forver, but I mean, who cares? As if it involves you?
I don't know, it just really bothers me that people who are simply watchers, or by-passers really think they need to speak their opinion on how long they believe a relationship will last. XD
Who gives people the right to say stuff like that anyway?
Its just ugghhh cant think of anything else to say...
1.) it might be hurtful
2.) Why are you in another persons love life?
3.) You cant predict the future.
People say shit and gossip to make their lives feel better when most of them have nothing but a computer.
Me and david met online , we had been friends for a year (and a little closer) then we disided no more funny stuff and got together , now we live together . it proves they don't know what they are talking about.
If you can last in a long distance releltionship you know you love the person .
plus as you said it's non of their business anyway , don't like it go somewhere eles bitches
=3 Wish me luck, maybe? It's been 9 months now.
Lolwut, you haven't even met each other IRL? That's not love then, man, you're just deceiving yourself. ^_^'
Well, at least that whiny post made me feel happy knowing that I can see and touch my loved ones whenever I want. ._.
im pretty sure the dick here is you for not even considering the feelings of others. huehuehue
the real dick is the commenter for shoving its nose in peoples business.
who cares what they say?
actually a lot if people care what they say. no one has the right to judge a relationship just because its online.
I mean thoughtless dating can harm people. But in my eyes, Dating is a natural thing that should be done, and maybe sometimes the relationship is shaky, but oh well, thats all their business.
I'd have to agree mostly with your opinion.
Just my opinion I guess? I don't tell people who they should and shouldn't be with, but I can't say I don't roll my eyes at some of those relationships, haha. It also depends on the person, though.
I think people like you, and Vengefulspirits have great relationships, and don't let anyone tell you guys otherwise! But other artists like Hinauchi or whoever, they seem a bit silly.
how can they tell how long it'll last if they don't know how you and the other person fit together or whatever
good points everyone has on here vuv
I guess some people say it because they don't want the person to get hurt or something, but they need to keep in mind each relationship is different, No one is the same so they have different reasons for braking up or being with another.
Sadly people will always make assumptions an say their opinions no matter what, so you just got trust your heart and do what you think is right and ignore in the nay sayers.
Yeah.... haven't your fans bugged you about your relationships? Like
"Hey are you and _____ still dating???"
and "Who are you dating!?"
Its really none of their business, especially when their saying that you and _____ won't last long dating, thats just mean..
Everyone's a keyboard warrior now.
Same with offline relationships.
ouo I'm glad you think that way.
;u; Good-day, Blue.
I was dating this guy, and we had been dating almost a year so I was all joyous day bullshit stuff. Then my friends mom decides she'd like to tell me that me and my boyfriend wouldn't last forever and he defiantly won't be the last person I date. He wasn't of course, but I was like; how the hell do you know that? Are you involved in the relationship and know everything? asdf-
Though journals like this make me curious. How is your relationship with AJ going?
I, myself, broke up with them for my reasons, not because I did not wanna date them anymore or anything like that, I did it to save our friendship.
But, I remember I posted a picture with me and them, and one of my idols who are watching me posted a journal saying "I hate when people say they will love someone forever." .. It actually hurt me a lot.
It's note like they are dating the person, they should butt out. v n v
Sorry for the.. Longish.. Comment, but I felt like I was the only person who felt this way. xD;;
I mean, yeah, most relationships don't last, but it's no one elses business if they're together forever or brake up the next day, ya know? o3o
You change girlfriends every 2 weeks.
Don't get on my relationship >:\
That's I rarely post my relationship status online or anyplace really.